Emotional Maturity

What happens if we let our emotions take over?

Not a good place to be! If we don’t learn to manage our emotions, our emotions will manage us!  We need ‘Emotional Maturity’

A couple of weeks ago I spoke on this subject at a women’s breakfast, exploring the following issues… What are emotions? Can our emotions lie to us? Common emotions. What is emotional maturity? How we manage our emotions in ways that are godly and healthy.

I really believe this message will help you manage your emotions and encourage you on your journey with God. It’s not just a message for women, there’s stuff in there for everyone. Listen and be blessed.

To listen to or download the message, click on the picture below, which will take you to the correct Life Church page.

Good News For Perfectionists!

Review websites are a nightmare for perfectionists like me! When I buy stuff off websites like Amazon I always read the reviews first. Even if the 5-star reviews far outweigh the 1-star reviews, I’m swayed. I’m looking for perfection you see! This approach affects more important aspects of my life too, and causes me to wrestle with decisions, usually unnecessarily.

That’s why I love these verses. In 2 Samuel 22:31 David declares, “As for God, his way is perfect.” Now that’s good news isn’t it? God doesn’t need to read Amazon reviews. He always makes the right and ‘perfect’ choice. David goes on to say, “It is God who arms me with strengthand makes my way perfect.” So, not only is God’s way perfect, but he makes my way perfect too. Not my definition of ‘perfect’ but His. Good news for perfectionists!

But don’t forget the caveat: Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6.

Faith Partnership update

It’s the end of an era. My six years working in mission and ministry with NLI Europe has come to an end. I’ve written all about my travels, adventures, successes, challenges and more. You can read all about these by clicking on the photo link. I do like this image, taken at a remote Polish railway station. It’s a good metaphor. So, I raise a plastic cup of Polish tea to your health as you read on.

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Better Than TV!

It’s true! Most of the TV we watch has no positive impact on our lives. In fact watching TV is often a way of escaping from the realities of our day-to-day lives. That’s ok, we all need to wind down at the end of a busy day. It’s just a  thought, but why not try reading your Bible instead. Connect to God and let him help you deal with the realities of your life in a more fruitful way than escapism.

I hadn’t intended to say that, but I’m sure it will ring true for someone! Anyway, please let me introduce you to the Faith Partners Autumn News. Click on the TV and see what you can see…

 

Eurosummit Takeaway

Last week I was at the NLI Eurosummit. I’ve been working with NLI for six years now so this was my fourth ES. In the past I’ve travelled to Bratislava, Krakow and Madrid, but this year just had to jump in the car and head down the road to Coventry. Actually, I seemed to spend quite a bit of time in the car, but then I was on the logistics team, helping to ‘ferry’ guests around. So, one week later and what is my take away from the event? Several things…

Firstly, Eurosummit was a celebration. We kicked things off with our 20th Anniversary Banquet. Around 120 people gathered from all parts of the globe including NLI staff past and present as well as guests from Poland, Romania, Slovakia, Czech Republic, Bulgaria, France, Ukraine and Lithuania; many of our ministry partners from the last 20 years. Other guests included NLI ‘friends’ from around the UK. It was great to see so many familiar faces: we could have chatted the night away! The banquet provided a great opportunity to look back over the last 20 years and celebrate leaders equipped and empowered, churches planted and mission teams mobilised.

David Shearman, guest speaker at the banquet

If the banquet was about celebrating the past then Eurosummit was definitely about changing the future; about finding ways to bring real Kingdom transformation to the nations of Europe; about getting out of our church ghettos into the marketplaces, the schools, the workplaces; about being salt and light. Yes, we’ve heard it all before, but clearly radical steps are needed, because what we’re doing at the moment is just not enough.

And so Eurosummit was also an ‘agitant’. My spellchecker doesn’t like this word, but it sums up the mood of many of the ES delegates, especially NLI founder/leader, Ian Green. Far from patting ourselves on the back for the past 20 years, there was a sense of dissatisfaction: why haven’t more leaders been equipped and empowered, more churches planted and more mission teams mobilised? We are agitated, unable to rest until we see real spiritual, economical and social transformation across Europe.

Ian Green

The pre-event blurb said: ‘Eurosummit is not a conference, it is a connecting point, a relational event, a sharing of effective ideas and resources so that we can achieve more together than we could alone.’ And so ES was not so much, “here’s what NLI is doing in Europe, what can you do to partner with us?” Rather, “here’s what people like Billy Kennedy, Murray Cornelius, Brian Burton, Michelle Balverde and many others are doing to see transformation in their communities. Now, how can we partner together to impact Europe? Come on, “where is your heart?!”

So, that was my Eurosummit take away. Even though this was my last ES as an NLI-er, there was still plenty to agitate me, and everyone else, to do what I can to bring about spiritual, economical and social transformation in my own community, as well as Europe.

Where is your heart?

© Faith Partnership 2009